So there’s a difference between unquestioned obedience and first time obedience As hard as it is, we want our kids to constantly test challenge and question us because it helps us learn and grow If we truly believe what we say, and we’re convicted in our actions, then the questioning of a child will not affect us But if you’re like us, it can be frustrating. It can wear you down and you can get defensive. But what we found is that typically this is just because it’s easier for us to force obedie