Women have smegma around the clitoral hood, men around the penile hood (foreskin). Don't use soap on the mucous membranes of your genitals because soap alters the pH balance and leads to dryness and infections. Warm water is enough for inside parts. How to care for your son’s intact penis: Just wash off the outside, and never forcibly retract the foreskin because that causes infection and scarring. In childhood the foreskin gradually separates from the glans. | Brother K